top of page

Where are you in the journey of discovery? CONFUSED

The path towards understanding is becoming increasingly crowded, with a multitude of variations in the form of Coaches, Counselors, and Spiritual Guides, along with a few more that I haven't encountered yet. All of these individuals seem to promise a pathway to a better life, and they are not entirely mistaken in their claims, provided they possess genuine expertise in their field.

The essential truth is that you won't magically transform into an entirely new person overnight, nor will you wake up "cured" after a handful of sessions. While it would be fantastic if such a rapid change were possible, the reality is that embarking on a journey towards self-improvement involves encountering various negative aspects that you may have either forgotten or not previously been aware of. During this journey, you might confront old traumas, pain, and unresolved issues. Strangely enough, this process is healthy. I like to think of it this way: just as you need to empty an overflowing trash bin, you also need to purge yourself of overflowing negative behaviors and emotions. If you choose to work with someone who has recently appeared in your life, you might find yourself in a precarious situation. Why is this the case? Lately, I've encountered an increasing number of individuals making grand promises despite lacking a genuine understanding of how the human mind and heart can relive traumatic experiences. These people might encourage you to meditate and manifest past experiences, thereby delving into the darker aspects of our nature. For instance, there's something called "Shadow Work," an intentional practice that allows these darker aspects to surface. In this practice, the Coach, Counselor, or Practitioner interacts with this hidden aspect, posing questions and gaining insight. This can indeed provide valuable understanding to the client. Yet, here's where my concern arises for all of you. What happens if your online coach, counselor, or spiritual guide can't guide you back from this submerged state? What if the shadow side refuses to recede and has taken a hold of you, the client, leading you to a place from which you can't extricate yourself? What if you're left feeling ungrounded after a session, struggling to move forward because of the lingering energies you don't know how to manage? Additionally, even seemingly straightforward exercises like meditation and delving into thought patterns and learned behaviors can have a profound impact on you. The deep introspection we engage in has consequences that reverberate within you.

Am I sabotaging my own efforts? Absolutely not! I'm completely transparent – my qualifications are readily available for scrutiny. I bring with me a comprehensive professional history that predates my decision to embark on this particular journey. This is precisely what I encourage individuals like you to seek out – a history, a track record. Where has this individual's journey led them from, and how have they honed and applied their techniques? Do their qualifications carry recognized accreditation? And on the other hand, why might someone lack such qualifications? What precisely does your investment cover?

My aim is to be forthright and open, offering you the opportunity to assess my background and expertise. My extensive professional background, developed long before I chose this path, is a testament to my commitment and competence. These are the aspects I encourage you to investigate in any practitioner or guide you consider working with.

Holistic and spiritual interventions offer incredible support, cleansing, and the nurturing of the soul. They have the potential to provide clarity to numerous individuals, a sense of absolution to others, and a well-defined path for progression. When engaging with a Counsellor, Coach, or Spiritual Guide, you're embarking on a journey of education, fostering new insights, fostering personal growth, and achieving emotional self-reliance. Their role is to ensure your safety as you explore the depths of your thoughts and behaviors, allowing you to navigate the currents of change and transformation that you desire.

Certainly, when considering engaging with any professional service, especially in the realm of holistic and spiritual guidance, it's crucial to conduct thorough research and make informed decisions. Here are the steps you can take to ensure you're making a well-informed choice:

  1. Website Evaluation: Start by thoroughly exploring the practitioner's website. Look for details about their qualifications, experience, services offered, and their approach to holistic and spiritual guidance.(some sites will be in a state of growth this is ok, just be aware)

  2. Governing Body Membership: Check if the practitioner is a member of any recognized governing bodies or professional associations related to their field. Membership often indicates a commitment to ethical practices and continuing education.

  3. Insurance Verification: Verify whether the practitioner has appropriate insurance coverage. This can provide assurance in case of any unforeseen issues during the guidance process.

  4. Work History and References: Inquire about the practitioner's work history and ask for references or testimonials from past clients. This can give you insights into their effectiveness and professionalism.

  5. Awkward Questions: Don't hesitate to ask challenging questions. You might want to inquire about their training, specific methodologies they use, their approach to handling difficult situations, and their philosophy regarding ethical practices.

  6. Discovery Call: Take advantage of any free discovery call offered. This is an opportunity to gauge whether you connect with the practitioner, whether their approach resonates with you, and to ask preliminary questions.

  7. Research Reviews: Look for online reviews or testimonials from clients who have worked with the practitioner. This can provide additional perspectives on their services and approach.

  8. Accreditation and Qualifications: Verify the qualifications and certifications claimed by the practitioner. Research whether these qualifications are accredited by reputable institutions.

  9. Ethical Practices: Inquire about the practitioner's ethical guidelines and practices. It's important that they uphold a high standard of ethics in their interactions with clients.

  10. Take Your Time: As you mentioned, don't rush into a decision after a discovery call. Take the time you need to reflect on whether the practitioner is the right fit for you and your goals.

Remember, your well-being and personal growth are important, so investing time and effort into researching and selecting the right practitioner is a wise decision. It's all about finding someone who aligns with your needs and values and who you feel comfortable working with on your journey.



5 views0 comments

Recent Posts

See All
bottom of page